So there is somewhat of a bed spawn issue, to where people are properly placing there beds and sleeping, and when they die they go back to spawn, and not there bet, this issue is because of having blocks around the players bed, to resolve this issue, make sure you don't place blocks around your bed, give yourself a 1 block radius on the sides, and end of your bed, and 2 blocks above to ensure that you will spawn at your bedside.
Thank you Lynn, and softballgirl, for getting with me on this.
Thank you Lynn, and softballgirl, for getting with me on this.